Churches in relationship
I’m working with one parish at the moment which is very strong on being a distinctive Church rooted in the village. Sounds great and yet the Church seems less clear on what it means in practice to be a Church in relationship with those other Churches in the benefice.
This led me to think about the kinds of relationship we may have in everyday life and whether there may be something to learn from the range of such relationships about being both a village Church and a Church in a benefice.
The range that came to mind is
- We have no idea about each other as we are strangers
- We cannot remember each other’s names though we think we have met before
- We pass the time of day when we meet by chance
- We exchange small talk at organised social occasions
- We know we could call on each other for help though rarely do so and then only in small ways
- We collaborate on something mutually beneficial or in the service of others
- We meet deliberately to share something about our lives, to listen to each other and to be together for the sake of being together
- We have a closeness giving liberally one to the other, sometimes sharing adversity and sometimes joy
I’m sure this range could be challenged and strengthened. It would be interesting to discuss it with a parish and to consider where it would place itself now and in the future.